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SOME STORIES OF THE
"CHILD" SYSTEM'S CHILDREN
Nagendra was
a runaway. Having left his home, unable to bear the
beatings of his alcoholic father, he came to Vijayawada
hoping the city would offer him a brighter future.
He
found only further rejection, and slowly became dirty and
then unhealthy due to lack of proper care. Very soon he
fell in with a gang of children whose 'leader' was
addicted to 'brown sugar' (heroin), eventually trying it
out himself. He eventually joined burglary outings to get
money for his own upcoming addiction.
He
began visiting the SKCV Night Rescue Centre for medical
treatment for a serious case of scabies. Slowly, with the
loving care of SKCV staff and great personal
determination, he kicked his drug habit and now has a
good job. He saved Rs.1500/- and plans to open a small
bicycle repair shop within two years.
Polerama is 11 years old. She has two
brothers and one sister. Since childhood Polerama stayed
with her grandmother in Guntur. After her father's second
marriage, she was forced to do all the household work by
her stepmother and grandmother. Her two brothers were
sent to earn money and younger sister since she is small
stayed at home cared for Polerama. Their mother sells
flowers in Raja mundry. Occasionally, she meets her
mother. According to Poleramma, there was more pressure
of work on her in the home so she ran away from her
grandmother\rquote s home & came to Vijayawada on her own. She was
brought to centre from Vijayawada railway station by another girl. \tab
She is now staying as a resident in SKCV Children's Trust ( Bala Prema) .
Here, she has taken a good interest in studies and duties
given to her, however she ran away from our centre to
Rajamundry to meet her mother. She came back to
Vijayawada along with her mother. She was found begging
near a cinema hall. Her mother has now given formal
permission for her to stay at SKCV and visits her
regularly.
Marriyamma is 13 years old.
She was born in Vijayawada. She has only her mother. Her
mother was cheated two times by her would be husband. She
tells that all is her mother's fault. Later on, a far
relative, whom Marriyamma recalls as her father, would
beat them. She studied till Vth class. After his death,
both mother & daughter were forced to live on the
streets . Her brother is missing since 2 years when his
mother took him to the city during festival. Marriyamma
was brought to centre when she was one year in
Vijayawada. It is one year since her arrival at SKCV
centre. She has excellent interest in studies. Besides
this, she is also interested in Vocational training in
the centre . Her mother regularly visits and trusts the
centre. Now her mother is so confident that she herself
is now introducing parents with young girls in need to
our centre.
Shankar
is now seven years of age. He
ran away from home when he was five. He remembers working
alongside his ailing mother in a fan factory, helping her
to scrape together enough money to feed his baby sister.
If he got the chance, his father used to take the money
and get drunk. Upon arriving home, he would eat what
little food there was, then thrash Shankar's mother with
a belt. Many times he turned on Shankar.
After
spending two years on the railway station at Vijayawada,
Shankar met one of the SKCV contact groups and was
invited for food and medical treatment. He never again
returned to the station and is now studying in the SKCV
Non-Formal Literacy School. Shankar's mother has since
died, and his father has taken up residence with a
prostitute. He is unwelcome in the house and does not
visit, although sometimes he sits and cries thinking
about his young sister.
Nityanand,
the oldest of four children lost his father in 1986. He
was then studying in Class VIII. His father had been
running a business which the family was unable to
sustain. His mother had no job. Money had to be earned
for the family to survive so Nitya dropped out of school
and started working as a mechanic. He later moved out of
the house and was living on the streets.
One
day his mother came to the shop and told him about SKCV
and persuaded him to visit it. Nitya had heard of the
organisation too. After taking some midterm tests he got
into the next session of school. Nitya's mother started
working in the fields to manage the family expenses.
After
finishing school and a computer course Nitya was put
in charge of the SKCV computer research department. If one
were to see Nitya at work one would assume that he has
undergone considerable training. This 19 year old is
confident, clear and mature. He points out "Every
child should have a chance/choice to do what he wants
with his life."
Nitya's
mother continues to work, his brother is at SKCV and his
sisters study in hostels.
THE
PERSON BEHIND THE "C H I L D" SYSTEM WAS ALSO A STREET CHILD
Sriman
Manihara Norton was born in 1953 on January 9th in London,
England, into a family of doctors. His father, Dr. D.W
Norton, mother and grandfather were all highly respected
members of the medical community in England. (His mother
and father were running "War-On-Want" (North
UK) and their children all used to help in packing
medicines and clothes for the poor in India and Africa.)
He was educated at several distinguished schools in England, but
left Mount St. Mary's College, Sheffield at the age of 16 after studying
English literature, social studies, drama and psychology. Then he ran
away from home and lived on the streets of Europe for six years.
S Manihara took up working with various
international charitable organisations, and in 1978 came
to India as a voluntary teacher at a small school near
Delhi, in order to experience for himself the rich
culture of India.
Seeing
the condition of so many poor people, he soon became
involved in social work with underprivileged young
children there, and later, to a greater degree in Bombay
and Pune, where he personally set up shelters for many
homeless children. In 1984, he single-handedly founded SKCV
Children's Trust, a Trust organised solely to provide
love and security to unwanted, homeless orphans and
unwanted destitute children.
Since
the beginning, he has been working tirelessly with
various Indian national dignitaries to build up an
All-India forum for underprivileged young children, and
his personal efforts have been highly commended by Shri
Rajiv Gandhi, President S.D. Sharma, Mother Theresa, John
Major and many other world leaders. He has worked closely
with municipal government in various cities of India.
He is
now embarking on the biggest project ever taken up in
India by an NGO, that of an entire vocational village for
underprivileged children run by the children themselves.
He is involved in various local and national initiatives
for environment and social upliftment along with all the
kind leading citizens and local government heads of
Vijayawada who come forward to assist him in this great
work. He is happily married to his Indian born
Maharashtrian wife, Bhakti Devi, who is also the
Headmistress of SKCV Charitable Non-Formal School, and
who helps him constantly with his work. They both live in
Vijayawada with their youngest son, Anandamoya, and all
the children they help. Their oldest son, Madhava, is
involved with the SKCV office in the UK.
Thank you for your interest. Please feel
free to adopt .... or adapt any of this manual to suit
your own needs. Please send me any suggestions, changes
or comments so I can include them later.
With warm regards
S.Manihara (author)
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