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Etiquette – Men
We are sorry but men have
no problems with how to dress, but the same type of cool, loose clothing is
strongly suggested. No need for boots, socks, jeans or anoraks in South
India. Be prepared to take off your shoes when you enter a house or temple.
Flip-flops are best and very cheap here. A firm handshake will gain
friendship. Diplomacy and listening to the other person always works
wonders. Much can be learned from elders in India.
Note:
The same rules as above
regarding relationships is equally applicable to our male volunteers.
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Food
Note: SKCV in India is a totally vegetarian
organisation which promotes vegetarianism. Meat and fish are not part
of our diet., eggs, however, are allowed
As most
of the children are ‘veggies’ before they come to us we find it better for
their health to continue this. We also believe that one who eats meat loses
his/her sense of mercy and cannot work well with the children. Either way it
really is best to abandon meat while you are in India. Most disease comes
from eating contaminated meat. There is no such thing as a butcher’s shop
and the meat stall on the roadside will quickly confirm your resolution to
go ‘veggie’. Be prepared to eat with your your right hand!
For more information, go to:
www.ivu.org
or
www.goveg.com
Food
Shopping
‘Modern
Foods’ Supermarket and Nilgiris can provide you with a variety of goods,
bread, rice, pasta, tomato puree, custard, sweets, Cadbury’s Drinking
Chocolate (yep!), Kellogg's Cornflakes, butter, sweet corn, processed,
cheddar and mozzarella cheese, baked beans, biscuits, packet soups,
toiletries and washing powder…. You can often get bread, biscuits and butter
at a ‘Fancy Store’, stocking, it seems, whatever takes their fancy!
Fresh
milk is not bought at a supermarket but they have pasteurised packets. Fresh
milk from the roadside – blue and yellow crates (only at 5.00am). Ask for
dairy outlets as well. Milk is sold in 500ml packs for Rs.6-7. Normal milk
packet with blue writing, semi-skimmed with orange. Boil the milk even if it
says pasteurised.
You can
buy all kinds of vegetables and fruits at the market and street stalls.
Vegetables include potatoes, aubergines, onions, tomatoes, cucumbers,
carrots etc. Fruits include pineapple, mangoes, papaya, sweet grapefruit
(its juice makes a marvellous drink), bananas, grapes, pomegranates etc.
Be
prepared to barter. Ask someone you trust what you should pay, halve the
amount the vendor asks and with a smile, start with that. Walking away also
reduces a price fast.
Where to
eat out
When at the children's village you can either eat
in the dining room with the boys, (which is the spicy option). Or try the
international cuisine in Manihara, his wife and their adopted son's house.
Orders can be taken for Mexican, Spanish, traditional Italian or any other
flavour. Previous volunteers serious suggest creamed potatoes.
There are
many good places to eat. Krishna Residency has a good restaurant and fast
food stall. The Hotel Illapuram (pronounced eyelapooram) has a vegetarian
restaurant that is recommended and not expensive. Try the 70mm dosa. Hotel Quality Inn (DV
Manor) is a top hotel and it has all kind of food, but it is bit expensive.
Hotel Minerva has a great veggie restuarant.
Breakfast is
easily found outside the gates of the volunteer apartment. The stall will
provide fresh dosa, puri or idly. For
snacks there is a good fast food joint under the Alankar cinema in the city
centre and another, Anoos,. Modern Café and Lodgings on Besant Road does nice masala dosa (savoury pancake), sweet lassi (yoghurt
drink) and is a perfect place for an
evening meal. Try Kulfi ice cream .. it’s made from buffalo milk and is an
acquired taste but we love them! There is another ice cream parlour on Bunder
Road worth a visit! At Adhikar Hotel there is a fast food joint and Hot
breads which is the BEST place in town. Vegetarian burgers, ice cream and
pizzas are sold at Baker’s Inn. Then there is always CRAZY RESTAURANT in
Gandhinagar.
Eating
habits in India is the custom to eat with the fingers by all. Wash your
hands before and after eating. The left hand is considered very dirty and is
never put near the mouth. Indians will, however, take pity on you and give
you a spoon, (sometimes).
Getting
around
You can travel by
taxi, bus, auto-rickshaw and cycle. To get to the centres you can get an
auto-rickshaw. Prices are Rs. 15 to go to the night shelter, but it's also a
comfortable walk, Rs.20 to the girls centre and Rs.30 to the children's
village. Every morning at 9:30 am you can catch the SKCV bus leaving the
night shelter for the village.
Getting
away
There is
a good bus service in Vijayawada although it may be crowded. Women sit at
the front, men at the rear. The conductor is the man struggling through the
crush screeching for your tickets. Many buses leave for all parts of India
daily and the service is efficient. They range from boneshakers to nice
semi-sleeper Air
Conditioned tourist buses. Prices are cheap and booking is computerised.
Vijayawada has the largest train station in
South India which is situated a short
distance from the night shelter. Trains leave daily for all major cities,
simply ask us to organise your ticket or there is an underground booking hall which is
computerised. From here you can book travel anywhere in the country and also
travel starting from other destinations.
There is
an information counter staffed by friendly staff opposite the entrance where
you can have queries answered and can obtain reservation slips you write on
it the details of the ticket you require and then queue at the relevant
counter. Women can queue jump; there’s a special window for them and freedom
fighters! You can only book tickets 30 days ahead. It’s well worth doing
this early – remember the train is the most popular form of travel for 9
million people here. Get your seat before they all do. Long distance hauls
(30 hrs or more) are best done in Air conditioned coaches.
The SKCV
staff and boys will gladly tell you what to see and where it is. Some of the
older boys make good guides.
Shopping!!!
The best place to shop is One Town, the oldest part of the city. A centre of
tiny streets crammed with rickshaw's, auto's, animals, children, beggars,
street sellers and dozens of shoppers next to small shops overflowing with
goods. It is possible to find anything ranging from spices, silver, ropes,
sari's, fruit, vegetables, games, paint and bangles. Be careful not to get
lost in the retail jungle! Bhakti {Founder} will be happy to take you out.
Things to see
Kanakadurga Temple can be seen on the hill, very old and beautiful, when
travelling to the village. Ignore pushy priests in the small temples who say
they want to bless you but really want you to bless them with your money.
Queen
Victoria Memorial Museum is on Bunder Road.
A
trip to an Indian cinema is a must, if only to observe the phenomenon as the film
draws to a close. Go to see a Hindi or Telugu movie- some of the boys or
girls will
translate for you. Two cinemas show up-to-date English films and tickets for
air-conditioned seats are around Rs.25.(believe it or not!)
Gandhi
Hill is in the middle of the city between 1 Town and 2 Town and offers a
museum and views for miles.
Rajiv
Gandhi Park is the main green area of the city. There is a water fountain
synchronized with modern music and a small zoo which is not well stocked but
the lizard in the end cage is a ‘must see’. Its ancestor would climb to the
top of a castle with a rope put around his neck to help invading men scale
the walls
There are other
parks including Ragaviah Park near Besant Road dotted along the canals.
The
children and your guide book will tell you all about places of interest.
Buy here
(almost everything)
If you
are staying a while a mosquito ‘zapper’ which you plug in to the electricity
supply will ensure a bite-free night. Nets prevent the air from the fan
reaching you.
Clothes,
both for your stay and for use at home. Anything can be tailored here. If
you have a picture of it they can make it! So make sure you have family
measurements before you leave home. The silks and cottons are lovely.
Indians do not buy off the rack. Everything is tailor made.
Bookshops
Ashok
Bookshop is quite a way out near Benz Circle but is well worth a visit if
you want a good book. If you haven’t read ‘Freedom at midnight’, written by
Dominique Lapierre and Larry Collins, make it the next you read.
Higginbottoms, the largest book chain in South India sells a wide range of
good books. Cassettes and CDs are half the price here than in the West.
Annoyances
The queue
does not exist in India and your frustrations will be ignored. Always be
polite and prepared to wait.
Driving in India is an art (of madness) much akin to the dodgem cars. The
bigger vehicle has right of way. Two or three policemen have to man traffic
lights because no one follows the lights or the that matter any semblance of
the Highway Code. But the SKCV founder and the boys drive all day without a
problem, its actually fun to drive in India once you know that the rule is
there are no rules.
Last
points:
Being
friendly and courteous moves mountains here. The Indians are very friendly,
kind people. SKCV will help all the way with anything you need to be done.
Just remember that India is VERY different from the West.
"When
in Rome ... Do as the Romans Do".
All in
all don’t worry about a thing. Visiting India is a great and rewarding
experience for every one. Visiting SKCV is even more so, life is very
different but highly interesting and amusing. Look for the man riding his
rickety bicycle on the bumpy roads .... with 50 trays of eggs towering above
the back rack!!!
WE AT SKCV ARE HERE TO HELP YOU EVERY INCH
OF THE WAY.
Contact us at:
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